I just want to know if she's the one I will be with. I don't know if I truly love her or not. Please advise. Please explain why we should or shouldn't be together. Thank you very much

You are born in Virgo Ascendant whose lord Budh (Mercury) is in the second house.

Your birth star (Nakshatra-Moon Star) is Uttarabhadrapad 2nd Pada.

Ravi (Sun) is debilitated; Mangal (Mars) is Swagruhi (in own sign)

No other planet in your horoscope, is either exalted, debilitated, Swagruhi, combust or retrograde.

Rahu and Ketu are always retrograde.

Sun and Moon are always direct.

She is born in Cancer Ascendant whose lord Chandra (Moon) is in the ninth house.

Her birth star (Nakshatra) is Uttarabhadrapad 3rd Pada.

Shani (Saturn) is retrograde, Ravi (Sun) is exalted and Budha (Mercury) is combust.

No other planet in her horoscope, is either exalted, debilitated, swagruhi, combust or retrograde.

Rahu and Ketu are always retrograde.

Sun and Moon are always direct.

On studying and deliberating on your horoscopes, their divisional charts, as well as your dashas, Ganesha notes the following why you are attracted towards her.

1. Sun signifies soul, and hers is exalted and yours is debilitated, you seek solace and try to draw energy from her. What your sun lacks, you are attracted to her and what her sun lacks she may try to draw from you. As debilitation means weak, your soul is in search for higher planes of life, and thus you are attracted to her.

2. Your Mangal (Mars) aspects her Chandra (Moon), Mars is purely virile and Moon is purely feminine, thus you are attracted to her.

3. Your Sukra (Venus) is in the twelfth house and hers too is in the twelfth house, thus the same position of Sukra, the significator of love and physical intimacy and attraction, indicates your attraction towards her.

4. In the Navamsa chart your Mars and Venus are in conjunction in the seventh house and are opposite to her Sukra, which is in the Ascendant in her Navamsa chart. This is a very strong reason which indicates your attraction towards her.

All these things just and simply indicate that you are obsessed about her, and there is a just a strong physical attraction and some soul hunting and solace hunting and pacifying. Ganesha doesn't find probability of a stronger love building between you and her as there is no such planetary combination. This looks more like attraction, feels Ganesha. So if you are looking for soul mate, this is not the right one, as per Ganesha's view.

Wishing you good luck and may Lord Ganesha bless you.

Ganesha's Grace
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